Eric Tomlins
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All
the Strength of Living
All that happened doesn't matter
it is in the next breath
all the strength of living
all the solid rock, and wheat
and muttering trail of water
the touch of wind, touch of tears,
all the strength of living is in this breath
~Eric Tomlins |
Eric Grayson Tomlins
BEACON - Eric Grayson Tomlins – teacher, husband, father,
brother, poet, musician, mentor, and friend – died quietly
at his life-long home in Beacon, New York, on August 30th, 2009,
after a long illness. Eric was a teacher and leader for 30 years
at the Randolph School in Wappingers Falls, New York. A true intellectual,
he was a self-motivated learner who led by example, instilling
the joy of his quest for literary, scientific, and spiritual knowledge
in several generations of students, parents, and fellow educators.
His influence in progressive education extended throughout the
Hudson Valley. Taking over the leadership role at the school from
his mother, Lee Tomlins, Eric was the proud and unapologetic standard-bearer
for Randolph's legacy of progressive education. A grand mix of
passion and compassion, Eric was a great champion of his beliefs,
yet he gloried in the diversity of world views that others brought
to him. He had literally hundreds of friends of all walks of life
and saw beauty in every person he met. People knew they could come
to Eric and they would be greeted with kindness and an honest ear
that was genuinely curious and interested in what they had to say.
People loved to share their visions with him: They trusted him
with their dreams, and he never failed to engage in their passions
and concerns.Teaching was his greatest joy, although music, poetry,
tennis, hiking in the Adirondacks, soccer, building rock cairns,
studying film, and Ultimate Frisbee were close seconds. A passionate
Yankees and Giants fan, he was nonetheless tolerant of the Mets
and Jets.
Eric is survived by his two best friends, his wife Cath
and son Owen; his sister Katlyn and brother-in-law Ken Lerner,
nephew Adam and niece Kara; his brother Jason and sister-inlaw
Tina and nephew Reuben; Mark, Diane, and Noah Boujikian; his ësecond
family', Kate, Lanse, Gerrit, and Evan Stover and their families;
the Romano family; the loving community of the Randoph School;
and many, many friends, far and wide. Arrangements by the Libby
Funeral Home, Beacon, NY. There will be no calling hours. In lieu
of flowers, donations can be made to The Eric Tomlins Fund at the
Randolph School, 2467 Route 9D, Wappingers Falls, NY, 12590. On
Saturday September 12th, 2009, at 2:00PM, there will be a memorial
gathering at The Randolph School to quielty reflect on Eric's life
and the ways he inspired those around him. This will be followed
by a reception and celebration at 4:00PM.
If you would like to
share written or spoken memories or thoughts about Eric, there
will be an opportunity at the memorial gathering, or you may send
them via email to Eric's family at eric.tomlins.memorial@randolphschool.org
Published on September 01, 2009.
Below is a link to an interview done with Eric on
WVKR
http://www.spiritualprogressiveshv.org/Speaking/ss-tomlins-080603.wmv
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that
contributions be made in Eric's honor to The
Eric Tomlins Fund. Donations may be made by mail or use
the link below to access Randolph School's page at justgive.org,
a web site for making secure donations to non-profit organizations.
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